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The original was posted on /r/antiwork by /u/SufficientTea6696 on 2025-11-12 19:08:09+00:00.
Just wanted to vent somewhere where people would understand. My partner works for local government. A couple months ago she was yanked back into the office. Didn't see it coming. She's unionized, but honestly the union seems to be struggling to find a legal path to push back. She went from a hybrid model of spending a couple of days in a local office alternating with wfh to commuting daily to a city-based HQ over 2 hours away. 4 hours of commuting every day. In a city we can't afford.
I thought, well, maybe since I am 100% remote in an IT related job, then at least I'm safe. I can take on the house cleaning and chores. I can cook for us. Maybe we can move to that city once our lease is up in 6 months. We can figure it out. Sure, it has hurt our finances. Sure, it's a rough adjustment. But we can manage.
Nope. My workplace is now flirting with the same RTO ever since the government put in the policy. They've been putting in more and more draconic rules, I think to get us used to the idea. First, the paperwork to justify our wfh. Then being required to be on camera in every meeting. More and more "requests" to be on site. More in person required meetings. There's bad rumours going around.
My partner and I are screwed. My job's HQ is in a different city. 2 hours away in the opposite direction.
Does it matter that we took these jobs because they were remote? No. Does it matter that we've done them for years without issue remotely? No. Does it matter than when they finally pull the trigger that it'll cause a wave of retirements and institutional knowledge loss? Of course not, they don't give a shit.
I've been trying to be proactive. I got nervous last spring with all of the other RTO announcements and have been applying for jobs almost all year to try to get us in the same region. When my partner got pulled in, I redoubled the effort. I've had only one interview. Didn't get the job, obvs. We have historically bad unemployment happening in the city she's being forced to come back into, as well.
What are people supposed to do? We're just lines in a spreadsheet. I'm sure they'd love us to just quit. I don't want to go through the social humiliation of being fired to avoid quitting, but damn. I hate all of this. It's disgustingly cruel. And for what? To please some corporate landlords? To keep a dysfunctional system pasted together with increasingly desperate actions to claw back what it was like before COVID? We're people with lives!
And you know, I would have been fine with in person work if it was necessary and something I am skilled at doing that contributed something to do the world. But we can't even have that. Just all this anxiety and cruelty for an economy that doesn't even work.