Grumpy404

joined 2 months ago
[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I wish, also thank you for noticing my allegerys, infact i do take meds but i may need to switch. For some reason dogs scare me specially big ones. Ive never had a pet either so im unsure how well i could handle it.

But either way thanks.

 

Not sure if this goes here, but you ever wake up and wonder if your the bad guy in your life? even if you have done like nothing wrong.

 

So this is kinda of a follow up from one of my older posts, but you can say im a child of a hoarding family but some of its my fault aswell. My mother believes we dont need an external help and that i can do it by myself as if its my problem, which bugs me and demotivated me knowing how lazy and annoying m family is.

Im here to ask what should i do, i would move out but i cant. I want to know the math behind how much clutter one person can get rid by themselfs, and how much time it would take. its not like the stuff you see on tv and theirs no rotting food but still. I also would like to know how to get motivated and stay motivated?

What would you advise i do?

 

Im right now using lemmy/piefed but what other neat projects should i look into as a newcomer to this world?

Im not looking for anything in particular, i just want to expand what i use and see more projects.

 

So im a noob as some say, theirs certain games and software i use on windows that wont work on linux. ive tried linux but i found myself switching back to windows. I really do want to stay with linux but im not sure how or if i should duel boot or something? also what flavor of line do you enjoy or would suggest?

 

I have a group online, we used to do in person but had to do online and m not sure how to feel about it now. I have depression im always super nervous somehow. I feel like im letting my emotions ruin my fun and im not sure what to tell my dnd group. i also wish we could do other stuff and not just dnd but idk, they seem to only want dnd as that's something we all know.

What would you advise i do?

 

I do like dnd but ive just had some form of burnout lately and i feel like my depression isint helping either.

I want to explore other games and genres besides just dnd 5e. I would like to try solo but im not sure what the most beginner approach/game would be that is free, as i dont want to pay right away. I would also like to explore unique card games similar to tcgs but those dont really come solo.

Im up to hear out your suggestions and questions.

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 6 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Honesty i feel like i eat too much junk, so i should most likely eat better.

I dont feel ready to make a whole meal from scratch, some components from scratch are fine but no the whole thing. Im not quite sure what counts as cooking for me but i suppose working with food and not using a microwave to cook with.

 

Like where can i start if im not good at cooking? how do i decide what i want to attempt to make aswell? i dont want to spend to much to begin but is there also a low cost way to start by chance?

Im keeping this brief but if you have a question for me leave a comment?

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

thats what im wondering, maybe at one point i had multiple accounts, but honestly no clue.

Im pretty tame so im unsure, and reddit support is trash.

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Craft fair prices to get a booth are all over the place ranging from 35 dollars - around 75 dollars. She sells alot of random craft like teacup gnomes, resin, up cycled clothing, it usually ranged between those 3. We are total newbies to craft fairs and i just feel bad for her sometimes plus it alot of work to get like nothing back. I also feel like her pricing is also crazy at times but she trys to offers deals when the fair is almost done.

She dosent sell nearly enough from the around 5 craft fairs we have done over the years.

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I guess not but i just feel bad when she puts in so much effort and she get to earn anything, but perhaps her joy is enough?

Like one time she paid 35 dollars for 3 hours at a craft fair and only made 2 bucks., if you need a example of a time i felt bad about it.

 

Just wondering as there are some people toxic either online or itl, but are the people online just as toxic as they are online or are they a different person irl?

Hopefully this post makes some sense.

 

I usually help her setup and leave but she never really makes any profit because she wants to do things in her own way in her world. Is there more that i can do to help her at a craft fair instead of losing money? can i make something perhaps?

Im unsure, what would you advise? if you have any questions leave a comment.

 

Im thinking of trying either youtube twitch, but im unsure where to actually start or if gaming is something i want to actually do?

and also im totally lost on where to begin and learn?

What would you all advise? if you have a question for me please leave a comment.

 

So im sorta a child of a hoarder but ive also done some stuff aswell, its nothing like whats on tv, but its still a problem as we want to move. My mother keeps saying she wants me and her to get the junk out first but shes having trouble terterming whats trash compared to me, nor can we really afford some team to clean everything up.

What would be the best course of action here, because 2 people is not working.

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 10 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Im unsure why i cant get a job, but my family is planning on moving soon. i dont think my parents want me to start something big like a job yet, or maybe they think i cant handle it?

Ive tried asking them and they never give me a clear reason.

 

Hey im a 20 year old living with parents, most of you possibly dident know this but i have autism and dyslexia.

Im not allowed to jet a real job because parents dont want me having one and i dont have any means of getting to a job. For some reason im hyperfocused on wanting to make money online and im not quite sure why that is? Ive tried things like surveys but soon found out there worse than slave labor.

I do have ssi but most of it has to go towards my parents, i also heard getting income effects ssi income.

Idk, what would you advise? yes i know i need a hobby aswell in-which i am trying to explore more hobbys.

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 4 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Like any? or is there a certain one others start with? does it matter or can i do my own thing?

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 3 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Ive actually tried therapy many times, but they gave me someone new every week pretty much, i had to stop when i got someone who kept asking chatgpt stuff to tell me.

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 1 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Yes i do, its not the greatest but it gets the job done.

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 3 points 2 months ago
  1. i dont have any means of getting around nor are places close by.
  2. perhaps but im not sure where at or if i need a permit of sorts?
  3. i come from a family of hoarders where we have 15 years of junk, maybe if we clean up we would?
  4. Im sorta unsure but i have autism and rely to much on parents even though im 20 years old.
[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 3 points 2 months ago

Ive tried applying for mturk before and sadly they are not taking people from my state.

[–] Grumpy404@piefed.zip 6 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I dont have really many hobbies sadly, i usually just watch youtube and lightly game. i have interests sorta but unsure if its what i really want in life.

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